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Rest for the Weary

A few years ago I embarked on a project that was far more ambitious than I had imagined. For years I had wanted to replace the side door in my garage with a new one that actually closed and locked. Finally, one Sunday I decided it was time to act.

After going to Home Depot and choosing a new pre-hung door, a door knob and dead bolt lock, I headed home for the easy install. Seven hours later I was tired, thirsty and irritated--and still not done. In fact, when I went to bed that night I regretted ever starting the project. Let's just say there's a good reason I don't have a contractor's license.

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The next day I called a friend who is a contractor to come over and help me out. The door looked pretty good, but I couldn't get it to latch properly. My friend took one look at it, made a couple of adjustments with a screw driver, and wallah! Everything was fine! I was shocked. How could he fix it so quickly after I had struggled for so many hours? Obviously, the difference was he knew what he was doing and I didn't.

Life presents us with many challenges that require more expertise than we have to offer. Often, we only admit this after spending fruitless hours of trying to fix something we know little or nothing about. When it comes to matters of the heart, Jesus is the only One who knows what to do. He says:

"Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls" (Matthew 11:28, 29). NASB

My Sunday project was motivated by the desire to have a new door that could be locked. The remedy for my heart hinges on my willingness to unlock the door so Jesus can enter to make the necessary adjustments.

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

Givers and Getters

Recently, during my morning quiet time, a question stuck in my mind that begged to be answered. "What is the worst thing that could happen in your life?" What about the loss of a limb? Or worse yet, the loss of a family member? That is unimaginable. I don't want to even think about it. But aside from that, what would cause me the most grief? My answer may surprise you, because it did me.

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I believe my greatest loss, aside from losing a family member, would be to be put in a position where I had nothing to give. Nothing to give. In this life, true joy comes from being able to give to others.

When economic hardship comes our way it is tempting to focus all of our energies on personal survival. But as followers of Jesus, shouldn't our attitude be different? When times are tough shouldn't we be more giving, just in case we lose our income and are left without anything to share?

The very essence of Christianity is based on generosity. "For God so loved the world...that He gave" (John 3:16). Jesus said, "He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it" (Matthew 10:39) NKJV. Again, "Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again" (Luke 6:38) NKJV.

When Jesus asked the Rich Young Ruler to sell all of his possessions and give to the poor, was He asking him to trade his life of luxury for that of a homeless vagabond? Was Jesus calling him to a life of abject poverty? I don't believe so. God has promised to provide for our needs. Rather, I believe God was calling the Young Ruler to change his world view--to become a giver instead of a getter.

There's nothing wrong with getting. In fact we cannot be givers without first getting. But in the process of getting it's easy to forget what the getting is for. Like the man in the Jesus' story who ran out of room to store his stuff, it's tempting to build bigger barns so that we can have more." It's tempting to believe the bumper sticker, "He who ends up with the most toys wins."

In God's world view getting is always for the purpose of giving.

In his letter to the Corinthians  Paul said,

"Now this I say, he who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. Each one must do just as he has purposed in his heart, not grudgingly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that always having all sufficiency in everything, you may have an abundance for every good deed..." (2 Corinthians 9:6-8) NASB.

Notice that God blesses us with good gifts so that we, in turn, can bless others. God wants us to experience the joy that can only be experienced through personal generosity. There is nothing else like it.

Today, I am thankful for the many people who, over the years have extended love, patience, and material wealth to me. I am not a self-made man. I am not a rock or an island, but the product of an extended community of givers who willingly gave of themselves so that I could grow and develop. 

Now, if I can only be like them.

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

Oil In My Lamp

There is much that I don't understand about the Parable of the Ten Bridesmaids. I'm not middle eastern and I've never been to a wedding where the attendants carried clay lamps or where the celebrations lasted for more than one day. But Jesus used one such event to illustrate the significance of being ready for His return. 

There were ten bridesmaids
Five were wise and five were foolish
The difference between the two centers around planning
The wise were cautious
The foolish did not anticipate a delay
They all slept

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Several key things I've learned from this parable include:

I need to plan ahead (life doesn't just happen)
I need to be deliberate about spiritual things
I cannot run on "fumes"
I need to let God fill my "tank" everyday
I need to be ready

Over the years I have also learned that I cannot be ready without God's help. I can only drill for the oil of God's Spirit and extract it from His word as He empowers me and blesses my efforts, otherwise I always come up dry.

Prayer: "Lord, please help me to be among those that You consider wise and ready."

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

I Am Thankful

On this Thanksgiving weekend, amidst the gravy, dressing and pie, I am grateful for the hope that Jesus brings to my heart. Recent violence in various parts of the world reminds me that there are people out there who do not value freedom of belief and expression. Their views of God are dogmatic and absolute. You either see things their way or you are deemed as evil and deserving of death. Unfortunately, this intolerance is not just confined to a few middle eastern religious fanatics. These same attitudes can be found in many religious groups throughout the world, including the U.S.

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Last year I attended a seminar in Altadena, CA where the presenter defined Modernism (from the Industrial Revolution to the mid 1980's) and Post-Modernism (from the mid 1980's to now) and detailed its impact on our present age. Particularly in the West, we enjoy a high level of tolerance that includes the acceptance of different beliefs and lifestyles. Even though I don't buy into the cultural attitudes and choices of many around me, I value our shared freedom of choice and support everyone's right to choose how they want to live (as long as they are not violating the rights of others).

At one point I asked the presenter what we can expect to see next. What comes after post-modernism? Without hesitation he said, Fundamentalism! Once society fully experiences the negative aspects of post-modern thinking and realizes that it cannot solve the world's pressing challenges it will swing hard back to the right and embrace Fundamentalism. I can see this already happening.

Fundamental thinking is less tolerant, more exacting and driven by prescribed authorities. Fundamentalist Christians and Muslims may differ in their specific beliefs, but they are very similar when it comes to their attitudes toward those they view as "unbelievers."

Trust me, you don't want to be on the receiving end of those who view themselves as God's emissaries of justice and truth. History is replete with examples of the disastrous impact such people have had on their communities.

Today, I am thankful that we still have religious freedom and that I can write about it. I am thankful for the quiet revolution of the heart that Jesus modeled and called His people to experience. I am thankful that Jesus is patient with me and others and that He does not use coercion and force to enlarge His kingdom. 

I am thankful that Jesus is not political and self-serving, and that He leads His followers to the higher path of service and humility. As one of Jesus' followers I am thankful that it is not my job to try and clean up the evil in the world, but rather my role is to be a loving, caring influence wherever I go.

Through the power of Jesus I am thankful that I can be the salt of the earth and make people thirsty for the Water of Life.

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

Pathway to Freedom

To be made a slave is one of the worst things that can happen to a human being. To be denied the freedom to go where you want and pursue your dreams is a tragedy beyond comprehension. The slave industry that existed in this country (which was largely practiced by "Christians") is proof that foul versions of Christianity can be developed by those who wish to justify their actions--whatever they may be.

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The famous Boston theologian, Cotton Mather, in 1693 included in his "Rules for the Society of the Negroes" the notion that "Negroes were enslaved because they had sinned against God." Where did he get this? Certainly not in scripture! Unfortunately, there are still "Christians" who believe this today, although I would like to think their number is deceasing.

Why do we as humans have such a difficult time breaking with the past; of throwing out beliefs and habits that cannot be supported by scripture? What am I believing and doing today that fits into this category? Is my idea of worship and church scriptural, or is it mostly tradition?

My Personal Journey

I grew up in the south in the early fifties with distinct memories of "colored" bathrooms and drinking fountains. As a child I had no clue what the blacks were up against. I just knew that the white people in power kept saying blacks needed to be kept separate. I saw and heard references to this in my own family. While my parents never made this distinction, my grandparents certainly did. I resisted their narrow thinking.

When I went to college I roomed with one of my best friends who belonged to a respected black family from Blakely, GA. It was a great experience. I still have fond memories of those times and of his brother and sister, whom I thought of a close friends.

As a new pastor I ended up in Florida, which some say is more cosmopolitan that the rest of the south. While this may be true, I saw clear evidence in the mid-70s that there were still strong lines of demarcation. I pastored for 7.5 years in the Florida Conference and never knew the black Adventist pastors who lived and pastored in my community. We were not prohibited from getting to know them, but neither were we encouraged (at least I don't have memory of it). Simply put, "they had their churches, and we had ours." Thank God, I've heard things are different today.

Now as I look back on that experience, I am ashamed that I didn't make an effort to get to know and fellowship with the black Adventist pastors who lived and ministered in my community.

One day, while pastoring a small church in north Florida, my 65 year-old head deacon announced that if I integrated the church and baptized any blacks, he would leave. When I pressed him for his reasons, he stated that it was not "proper for blacks and whites to mix." He went on to say that "they have their place, and we have ours." Of course such thinking is not biblical. In fact, it is anti-Christian! We went ahead and baptized some wonderful black members into that church and were thankful that this deacon's views were not held by the majority in the church.

Seeing as God Sees

I'm looking forward to the day when there are no lines of distinction; when people are simply people--regardless of the color of their skin, or national origin. I often think, when God looks at our world He doesn't see national boundaries. He doesn't think of people as Germans, Japanese, South Africans or Americans. He doesn't identify them as Republicans or Democrats. He doesn't even see denominational lines. He simply sees His children, the people of His creation; members of His family--even though some are confused and lost.

The problem

Until we are able to see and love as God does, we are ravaged by the evils of distorted perspective and lost in sin. We are still controlled by the powers of darkness who long to keep us from experiencing God's amazing freedom.

But when we do see--when God performs His miracle of grace in our lives, and the scales begin to fall from our eyes, then we are FREE! Then, with Paul we can say:

"Whatever we used to be with our old sinful ways has been nailed to the cross. So our entire record of sin has been canceled, and we no longer have to bow down to sin's power" (Romans 6:6) The Voice.

"God, I want to experience this kind of freedom. I want to see as You see, to love as You love--today!"

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

Kissing Jesus

Who is the last person you kissed? Was it your wife, your husband, or maybe your child? How about it kids, was the last person you kissed your mom or dad? Or, maybe your sister or brother? Typically, in this part of the world, we only kiss the people we love or are close to. Kissing is a sign of friendship and affection.

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Of course not all kisses are the same.

In some parts of the world, kissing, particularly cheek kissing, is used as a ritual or social gesture to indicate friendship, perform a greeting, to confer congratulations, to comfort someone, or to show respect.*

In our part of the world it is customary for people to kiss when greeting or parting (especially if they haven't seen, or won't see each other, for prolonged periods of time).

Romantic kissing is what people do who are in love. They usually kiss each other on the lips and sometimes forget to breath! Or, so it seems.

Kissing has played a significant role in religion.

* Muslims may kiss the Black Stone during Hajj (pilgrimage to Mecca).

* In Ancient Rome and some modern Pagan beliefs, worshipers when passing the statue or image of a god or goddess will kiss their hand and wave it towards the deity (adoration).

* In the gospels of Matthew and Mark (Luke and John omit this) Judas betrayed Jesus with a kiss—an instance of a kiss intertwined with betrayal. This is the basis of the term 'the kiss of Judas'

* The holy kiss or kiss of peace is a traditional part of most Christian liturgies, though usually replaced with a handshake today in Western cultures

* The pope will kiss the ground on arrival to a new country.

* Visitors to the pope traditionally kiss his foot. (The ring of a cardinal or bishop, hand of a priest.)

* Jews will kiss the Western wall of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem, and other religious articles during prayer such as the Torah, usually by touching their hand, Tallis, or Siddur (prayerbook) to the Torah and then kissing it. Jewish law prohibits kissing members of the opposite sex, except for certain close relatives.

* Eastern Orthodox and Eastern Catholic Christians often kiss the icons around the church as entering, they will also kiss the cross and / or the priests hand in certain other customs in the Church, such as confession or receiving a blessing.

* Catholics will kiss rosary beads as a part of prayer, or kiss their hand after making the sign of the cross. It is also common to kiss the wounds on a crucifix, or any other image of Christ's Passion.

* Hindus sometimes kiss the ground of a temple.

* Above material excerpted from Wikipedia

Is it possible to kiss crosses, rosary beads, and holy icons and not mean anything by it? Of course. We call this hypocrisy?

Is it possible to kiss someone and not mean anything by it? Of course. Sometimes people kiss each other in romantic ways but they don't really love each other. A number of years ago Tina Turner sang a popular song that asked the question, "What's Love Got to Do With It?"

What`s love got to do, got to do with it?
What's love but a second hand emotion?
What`s love but a sweet old fashioned notion?
What`s love got to do, got to do with it?
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken?

This describes people going through the motions of being in love, but it's all make believe. Instead of truly "making love" they are "making believe they're in love."

Running Away From Love

When I was sixteen years old I didn't know very much about love. If you asked my wife today, she'd probably tell you I still have a lot to learn. But when I was in the ninth grade I decided I didn't need my parent's love, or the love of my church, so I run away from both.

A friend and I boarded a plane in Orlando, Florida and flew to San Antonio, Texas where we stayed for a couple of months. I can assure you we didn't kiss our parents goodbye. In fact, ten days went by before we even told them where we were. Foolishly, I believed I could find happiness apart from my family and God. Unknowingly, I was singing the song, "What's love got to do with it?"

The last person I wanted anything to do with was Jesus Christ! In my mind He symbolized everything I wanted to be liberated from. In essence, I kissed Jesus goodbye, but not with a desire to ever see Him again. Fortunately, He didn't hold me to it.

In one way or the other we are all kissing Jesus. The question is, what do our kisses really mean?

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

It Is No Secret

I spent some time walking around Pasadena, CA today taking photos. While doing so I came across street performer, Leo de Vlugt, getting ready to play his saxophone. He's been playing on Colorado Blvd. and in the Old Town area for 19 years.

Leo de Vlugt, street performer, Pasadena, CA. Photo by Rich DuBose

While talking with him I felt impressed to give him a donation and do a little video of him playing. The end gets really good. I was blessed. Watch and hear Leo play.

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

ChurchApplied: In Motion

What if every Adventist member found a way to actively share their faith--daily? What if it wasn't a production, a program or an event as much as it was a way of life? What if we figured out how to apply "church" to our daily lives? We would be changed and our communities would be changed.

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The Christian ideals of unity, brotherly love and forgiveness are freely discussed in our sermons, church meetings and events, but often they never get beyond the walls of our church buildings and into our homes and communities. By God's grace we need to start "applying" what we profess so that we can truly be what Jesus intended--"the salt of the earth." In essence, our theology needs to be translated into biography.

"ChurchApplied: In Motion" is the video side of a collection of information resources published by Church Support Services. The purpose of the series is to inspire and move Seventh-day Adventist members within the Pacific Union Conference to act on the Spirit's call to translate their faith into biography.

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

Wrong Side of the River

Every morning I'm reminded of the fact that I'm a law breaker. Sometimes I trick myself into believing that I'm not that bad. I'm certainly not as bad as those who deliberately cheat, steal and lie. Am I? Sometimes I almost talk myself into believing that. But the thing that brings everything back into sharp focus is the fact that I'm dying. Slowly, but surely. That's proof that I'm on the wrong side of the river.

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The question is, does sin have its hold on me? Am I dominated by it? Does it get its every wish in my life? The truth is, sin is in charge as long as I refuse grace. One cannot accept the idea of grace and still be dominated by sin. Grace always wins out.

"When the law came into the picture, sin grew and grew; but where sin has spread, grace is there to cut it down and defeat it. No matter how much sin crept in, there was always more grace." Romans 5:20 (The Voice)

The question today and every day is "do I believe in God's grace, and am I allowing it to fill my life?"

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services

The Benefits of Pain

A number of years ago a story appeared in the news about a little girl who lived in Toledo, Ohio. She was like most little girls in every way except one. Her parents noticed when she was just a baby, that when she hurt herself she never cried. At first they didn't think much of it. They thought she had a high threshold for pain, or that she was just really brave. But as time went by they became concerned.

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Finally her mother took her to a doctor where it was discovered, after several examinations, that she had a rare disease of the nervous system that prevented her from feeling any pain. The doctors cautioned her parents that she could never be left alone, for she could severely injure herself and never feel the pain.

Even pain can be a gift from God for our protection and good. The Psalmist prayed, "The troubles of my heart are enlarged; Bring me out of my distresses" (Psalm 25:17) NASB. I like the way The Message reads, "My heart and kidneys are fighting each other; Call a truce to this civil war." Instead of praying for freedom from distress (and pain), perhaps we should just praise God that our pains (self-inflicted or otherwise) remind us of our need for Him.

By Rich DuBose, Director, Pacific Union Conference Church Support Services